“Dear God…”

During my Scripture reading one day, the Lord drew my attention to Philippians 1:6, “And I am sure that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ” (RSV). I prayed, “Lord, You began a good work in me when our daughter, Gail, became mine through marriage and when our sons, Jeff and Kevin, became mine through birth. I ask You to bring that work to completion.”

God was faithful to answer my prayer. I’ve had the joy of seeing all three of my children become mature Christians with families of their own.

Perhaps you’ve struggled with knowing how to pray for your children. You’re not alone; many Christian parents often feel as though their prayers somehow fall short. The Holy Spirit will show you which prayers are the most important.

Prayers for parenting

Here are a few prayers I’ve found essential:

• “Help my children to see Your qualities in me and know my love for them.”
• “Help me prepare my children to receive Your salvation.
• “Encourage me in my commitment to daily Bible reading and prayer. Lead me, guide me and change me.”

Prayers for children

Paul’s words in 2 Timothy 1:12 form the basis for a great prayer: “Lord Jesus, I am convinced that You are able to guard what I entrust to You. I commit my children to You, and thank You for Your protection and care.”

Here are some more prayers:

• “Help my children to stand for what’s right.”
• “Give them enough success to be certain of Your love, enough favor to be aware of Your kindness and enough humility to know they can do nothing without You.”
• “Show them Your holiness, and give them the power to live in a way that honors You.”

These prayers give you a place to begin. But remember, the words themselves do not matter as much as your faith, humility and dependence on God. He hears the cry of your heart—even when you have no words to express it.